Ssam means wrapped, and it is the most efficient piece of engineering in Korean food: leaf, rice, meat, sauce, something sharp, one bite. Built in the wrong order it falls apart in your hand.
The order we use
- A leaf — perilla for anise, red leaf lettuce for crunch, or both stacked
- A small spoon of rice, flattened, so the sauce has somewhere to sit
- The meat, straight off the grill, cut to one bite
- Ssamjang, a dab only — it is salt and it will win if you let it
- Something sharp: raw garlic, a sliver of chilli, or the scallion salad
Then fold it closed and eat it in one go. Half a ssam is a dropped ssam.

If your table wants to argue about whether rice belongs in a ssam at all, you are having the correct dinner.
